Ahhh…..early mornings spent in my cozy chair snuggled under my blanket in front of the fireplace (loving the cooler weather) reading a “good book” is one of the highlights of my day!
My ‘book’ of choice now is actually a magazine yes, I know, but I love Live Happy! What a way to start your day on a positive note with great stories and tips! *And the digital edition available on the iPad is so FUN!
Growing up I used to love reading fiction but now my joie is found in self-help books. The Law of Attraction says that you attract more of what you ARE. When you become a little better in some way than you were the day prior, your life and your circumstances will improve; things get easier as you get better. Who doesn’t want that, right?
“Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better.” Jim Rohn
So how do you become better? Personal Development! By simply following a course of continual growth and striving to reach your full potential.
Here are 8 of the most helpful suggestions I’ve found for improving one’s self.
- Start Now
There is no such thing as the perfect time. Do something about your personal development plan today. Growth doesn’t happen overnight, so you need to start now. You can build on what you do today, tomorrow. Don’t become a pro at procrastination!
- Read, Read, Read
Make it your personal goal to read at least a book per month, or 10 pages of a good book a day. Learn from the successful people who have gone before you. Choose a trait you would like to improve on over the next 90 days and get books, lectures, attend a seminar…etc all around that topic.
- Me Time
Take time every day to do something for yourself, even if it’s just 10 minutes of guilt free quiet time drinking a cup of coffee, or tea, as is now my drink of choice. Reward yourself in little ways for the progress you’re making.
Keep a daily journal, recording your thoughts, ideas, feelings, and GRATITUDE’S. Time for Reflection is key as John C Maxwell writes in his book The 15 Invaluable Laws of Personal Growth:
“Learning to pause allows growth to catch up with you.”
- Be Accountable
As hard as it is to accept, you are 100% responsible for what you are today and where you are today. No one else is to blame. Your choices and actions have gotten you to where you are today. By accepting personal responsibility you free yourself from the victim mentality and can begin to change things in your life for the better. If you want to become someone (or be somewhere) different than you are today, make personal growth your #1 priority. YOU are in the driver’s seat for YOUR future.
- Feed Your Mind
Choose carefully what and WHO you allow IN. By filling your mind with positive ideas, thoughts, and people who support and inspire you, you will be happier and have no room left for the negative.
Put up pictures of your dreams and goals where you will see them frequently. Create Vision Boards. Allow yourself to dream big WITHOUT LIMITS! Spend time every day visualizing your dreams being realized, in full color with all the sights, sounds, smells and emotions.
- Start Now
“You never get what you want, you always get what you picture.”
8. Never Give Up
Life works in cycles and moves to a rhythm. You will have days when the funk hits you. When you hit a slow point or things don’t seem to be moving, don’t give up. Be kind to yourself and Keep Going.
And most of all, remember that there is no end to your personal development journey. So have FUN and enjoy the ride!
My own journey really began just a few years ago when I left Corporate America and partnered with Neora, a company that has a heart and is committed to Making People Better. You can see the Neora Philosophy here:
One of my favorite quotes:
“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I– I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.” (Robert Frost)
If you enjoyed this list, please comment below and let me know your thoughts on following these personal development tips! 😀